My grandfather died over the weekend, so yesterday, today, and tommorow are all funeral-related events. Now, I’m not going today (I can’t miss that much work), but I went yesterday and I’m going tomorrow.
This manages to break up the week horribly, and to completely confuse my sense of time. I really have no idea what day of the week it is. Why is that? Why can’t our minds re-set/re-arm our inner clocks by, say, looking at a calander?
Anyway, funerals are very strange things. Odd combinations of groups laughing and groups crying. The old pictures we scanned/cleaned up/brought were a huge hit, with people trying to figure out who was who 60 years ago.
It’s amazing how much we used to see these people, and how little we’ve seen them recently. I guess when the unifying figure of an extended family, in this case my great grandmother, dies, that family fragments into the next most unified segments. Now, my last surviving grandparent has died, and I’m wondering if this will fragment my family futher. I certainly hasn’t happened on my Mom’s side, as there’s a strong bond between my mom and her siblings, so I can hope that it won’t happen on my dad’s side either. Although, in the past 2 years or so, I’ve basically never seen any of my extended family on my dad’s side without my grandfather being present, so you never know. We did used to get together with my mom’s family without her parents being there some of the time. I guess we’ll see. It’s now up to my uncle, as the eldest surviving member of our family, to make sure we do events at least yearly. We’ll see if he can pull it off.
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